pehli galti: media de isharya te nachna.

 teresa naa di naujavan kehndi hai: “kayi vaar mai kise fashion magar lagg jandi ha kyoki mai is diya bahut sariya mashhooriya dekhiya hundiya han. jado tuhade dimag vich ohna lokaa diya photoa baith jandiya han jinha ne khaas tarha de kappde paaye hunde han, taa ohna magar laggna bahut saukha hunda hai.”

 mashhooriya da asar sirf kudiya te hi nahi painda. ik kitab dassdi hai: “munde vi fashion pichhe bhajjde han. jado oh aje chhoti hi umar de hunde han, taa vapaari ohna nu apna nishana banauna shuru kar dinde han.”

 ik vadiya raah: bible dassdi hai: “bhola harek gall nu satt mannda hai, par syaana vekh bhaal ke challda hai.” (kahauta 14:15) is asool anusar sanu mashhooriya di janch karni chaheedi hai. misal layi, jado tusi kappdya diya mashhooriya dekhde ho jinha vich dikhaya janda hai ki ajehe kappde pa ke tusi “hot” ja “sexy” laggoge, taa apne aap to puchho:

•  ‘je mai is fashion pichhe bhajjda ha, taa kis nu faida hovega?’

•  ‘ajehe kappde paaun karke lok meri ginti kinha lokaa vich karange?’

•  ‘kee mere kappdya to pata laggda hai ki mai asal vich keho jeha ha?’

 salah/sujhaa: ik hafte layi kappde sambandhi atey hor fashion sambandhi dittiya mashhooriya nu dhyaan naal dekho. oh keho jehe chaal-chalan da samarthan kardiya han? kee kappdya te ajehiya galla likhiya hundiya han jinha da dohra nikalda hai te tuhanu idda laggda hai ki tuhanu is fashion di rees karni chaheedi hai? kairan naa di ik naujavan dassdi hai: “sohne dikhan, sabh to vadiya kappde paaun atey ang-pradarshan karan da dabaa bahut ziada hunda hai. jehrre mashhooriya banaun vale eh gall jaande han, oh naujavana nu saukhya hi nishana banaa lainde han.”

dooji galti: udda da fashion karna jidda da sare karde han.

 manuel naa da ik naujavan kehnda hai: “je kise khaas kisam da pehrava fashion vich hai, taa sare hi os nu paunde han. je tusi oh nahi paunde, taa lok tuhada mazaak udaunge.” ana vi is gall naal sehmat hai. oh dassdi hai: “gall fashion di nahi, sago eh hai ki dooje tuhanu pasand karan.”

 ik vadiya raah: bible dassdi hai: “is duniya de lokaa di nakal karni chhadd dyo.” (romiya 12:2) is salah anusar dekho ki tuhade kol kehrre kappde han atey apne aap to puchho:

•  ‘mai kis diya galla vich aa ke eh kappde khareede?’

•  ‘kise mashhoor designer ja company de kappde mere layi kinne ku ehmiyat rakhde han?’

•  ‘kee mai apne kappdya raahi lokaa nu kayal karna chahunda hai?’

 sujhaa: sirf do galla sochan di bajaye ki mere kappde fashion anusar (atey sare paunde han) ja purane zamane de (atey koi nahi paunda) han, teeji gall bare socho ki ihna kappdya karke tusi aatam-vishvasi te surakhyat hovoge jis karke doojya diya galla da tuhade te ziada asar nahi pavega. tusi apne aap vich jinna sehj mehsoos karo, unna tuhanu is gall di chinta ghatt hovegi ki dooje tuhade bare kee sochde han.