Sena Bakamboni ba Jehova Kuli Milawo Njobabikkide Mumakani Aakweebana?
Bakamboni ba Jehova basyoma kuti njiisyo alimwi amilawo iili mu Bbaibbele zilakonzya kutugwasya kusala zintu zimukkomanisya Leza alimwi izitugwasya lwesu kutugama. (Isaya 48:17, 18) Tatuli ndiswe twakabikka njiisyo amilawo eeyi, pesi tulapona kweelana anjiyo. Amubone njiisyo alimwi amilawo eeyi mboyeendelana amakani aakweebana. a
Cikwati taceelede kumana. (Matayo 19:6) Kweebana makani mapati kuli Bakamboni ba Jehova akaambo kakuti ncintu cisololela kucikwati.
Kweebana nkwabantu buyo ibasika aciimo cakuti inga bakwatana. Bantu bali boobu beelede kuti ‘bakainda kale aciimo cakukubuka,’ naa aciimo muntu najisi kapati cilaka cakoonana.—1 Bakorinto 7:36.
Bantu beebana beelede kuti kabaangulukide kunjila mucikwati. Bantu bamwi ibakalekana kweelana amulawo Leza tababoni kuti balaangulukide kunjila mucikwati cimbi akaambo kakuti cikwati ceelede kumana lilikke buyo kuti umwi wacita bwaamu.—Matayo 19:9.
Banakristo ibayanda kunjila mucikwati balaililwa kusala buyo musyominyina. (1 Bakorinto 7:39) Mulawo ooyu Bakamboni ba Jehova baubona kuti waamba muntu uusyoma akuzitobela nzyotusyoma alimwi iwakabbapatizyigwa kali Kamboni, kutali muntu uulemeka buyo nzyotusyoma. (2 Bakorinto 6:14) Kuzwa kaindi, Leza wali kulailila bakombi bakwe kukwata buyo baabo basyoma nzyobasyoma abalo. (Matalikilo 24:3; Malaki 2:11) Alimwi mulawo ooyu ulagwasya, mbubwenya mbobaamba basikuvwuntauzya bamazuba aano. b
Bana beelede kumvwida bazyali babo. (Tusimpi 1:8; Bakolose 3:20) Kujatikizya bana bacikkala abazyali babo, mulawo ooyu ulabikkilizya akumvwida nzyobayanda bazyali babo mumakani aakweebana. Nzyobayanda zilakonzya kubikkilizya ciimo mwanaabo nakonzya kutalika kweebana alimwi azintu nzyakonzya kucita.
Bakamboni balalisalila nobeelede kutalika kweebana alimwi amuntu ngobakonzya kweebana limwi kweelana ancaamba Magwalo. Eeci cileendelana anjiisyo eeyi yakuti: “Umwi aumwi weelede kunyamuna mukuli wakwe uumugeme.” (Bagalatiya 6:5) Nokuba boobo, caboola kukweebana, banji balalomba lugwasyo kuli Bakamboni basimide ibababikkila maano.—Tusimpi 1:5.
Micito minji iivwula kucitwa ciindi cakweebana nzibi zipati. Mucikozyanyo, Bbaibbele litwaambila kutacita bwaamu. Eeci tacibikkilizyi buyo koonana kwini, pele cilabikkilizya akusobanya cinswe camuntu umwi naa kucimyonta naa kucinjizya kumatako aamuntu umwi. (1 Bakorinto 6:9-11) Noiba micito iibusya muzeezo wakoonana kumuntu ngomweebana limwi, ‘mbusofwaazi’ butamukkomanisyi Leza, nokuba kuti tabuli bwaamu bwini. (Bagalatiya 5:19-21) Mibandi iijatikizya “majwi aacisapi” ayalo ilakasyigwa mu Bbaibbele.—Bakolose 3:8.
Moyo uleena. (Jeremiya 17:9) Ulakonzya kupa muntu kucita zintu nzyazi kuti taziluzi. Kutegwa myoyo yabo itabeeni, bantu ibeebana balakonzya kweeleba kulijana mubukkale bukonzya kubanjizya musunko. Balakonzya kusala kucita oobo kwiinda mukuba abusena aali bantu banji balilemeka naa kuba amuntu uubasindikila. (Tusimpi 28:26) Banakristo batali mucikwati ibayandaula muntu wakukwatana limwi balizyizyi ntenda ziliko mukweebana a Intaneti, kwaambisya ntenda yakusyabana amuntu ngomutazyi kabotu.—Intembauzyo 26:4.
a Kweebana ncilengwa cicitwa kumasena aamwi pesi kutali kumasena aambi. Bbaibbele talyaambi kuti tweelede kweebana naa kuti eeyi nenzila ilikke iisololela kucikwati.
b Mucikozyanyo, cibalo cimwi mubbuku litegwa Marriage & Family Review cakaamba kuti “buvwuntauzi botatwe bwakacitwa kubanabukwetene bakakkala ciindi cilamfwu mucikwati bwakatondezya kuti kweendelana mumakani aabukombi cipa kuti zikwati kazikkala kwaciindi cilamfwu (myaka iili 25-50 akwiinda).”—Volume 38, issue 1, peeji 88 (2005).